I am a psychologist and I’m worried about our kids’ sleep

As a psychologist, I’m increasingly concerned about something quietly impacting our children’s behaviour, mood, motivation—and mental health. Sleep.

It’s often overlooked, yet sleep is where the brain develops, emotions regulate, and learning consolidates. When kids and teens aren’t getting enough, it’s not just tiredness we’re seeing—it’s anxiety, irritability, poor focus, and emotional overwhelm.

And teenagers? They’re not being “lazy.” Their biology is shifting, and most are operating in a constant sleep debt they can’t easily escape.

Before we label behaviour… it’s worth asking: are they actually getting enough sleep?

Read the full article to understand what’s really happening—and what parents can do.

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