Ever asked your child how school was… and quietly wondered if they actually went to the toilet?
You’re not alone.
New insights show almost half of Australian kids aged 3–8 are holding on at school — not because they’re being difficult, but because their bodies don’t yet feel safe enough in a new environment.
If your child is avoiding the school toilet, this isn’t a behaviour problem… it’s a nervous system response.
The good news? There are gentle, practical ways to help them feel safe, relaxed, and confident again.
I’ve broken it all down in this parent-to-parent guide — grounded in research, real-life experience, and simple strategies you can start today.