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Sleep is a vital aspect of a child’s development, especially during the formative years of 2 to 5. As parents, understanding the intricacies of toddler sleep can greatly impact both their well-being and yours creating a happier, healthier household. Let’s delve into the importance of sleep for young children and provide insights to help you navigate this crucial aspect of early childhood.
The Importance of Sleep:
Sleep plays a fundamental role in a child’s physical, cognitive (brain), and emotional development. During sleep, the body repairs tissues, consolidates memories, and regulates mood (not enough sleep can cause tantrums and challenge capacity for emotional regulation). For toddlers aged 2 to 5, adequate sleep is particularly essential as their brains and bodies are undergoing rapid growth and development.
Understanding Toddler Sleep Patterns:
It’s important to recognize that toddlers have different sleep patterns compared to infants and older children. While toddlers still require a significant amount of sleep, their sleep needs may vary between 10 to 14 hours per day, including naps. Additionally, toddlers may experience transitions in their sleep patterns, such as dropping naps or consolidating sleep into a single nighttime period. Dropping all-day naps typically occurs from about 2.5 years old but some children drop all of their naps as early as 2, and some continue with one until closer to 4. The only reason to encourage dropping your child’s post-lunch nap is if it is impacting bedtime. If they are refusing to go to bed at bedtime or chatting in bed for over an hour or more, then it might be time to reduce or remove day naps.
Common Sleep Challenges:
Despite the importance of sleep, many parents face challenges when it comes to their toddler’s sleep. Common issues include difficulty falling asleep, frequent night waking, and resistance to bedtime routines. These challenges can be attributed to various factors, including developmental milestones, changes in routine, and environmental factors.
Tips for Promoting Healthy Sleep Habits:
Fortunately, there are strategies that parents can employ to promote healthy sleep habits in their 2 to 5-year-olds:
Establish a Consistent Bedtime Routine:
Create a calming bedtime routine that signals to your child that it’s time to wind down and prepare for sleep. This may include activities such as reading a book, taking a bath, or listening to soothing music. A bedtime ritual that includes checking in on your child’s day and offering emotional support can help ease the transition into bedtime. By providing a comforting ear, you can address any worries or fears your child may have accumulated throughout the day. Moreover, this ritual serves to strengthen the bond and connection between you and your child.
Create a Comfortable Sleep Environment:
Ensure that your child’s sleep environment is conducive to restful sleep. This includes a comfortable mattress and bedding, appropriate room temperature, and minimal noise and light disturbances.
Below are the key signs or factors that influence the decision to transition from a cot to a bed:
- Climbing out of the crib
- Outgrowing the crib
- Expressing a desire for a bed
Signs 2 and 3 indicate readiness for the transition, both emotionally and physically. However, sign 1 presents a challenge because although your child may be physically capable of climbing out of the crib, they may not yet be emotionally prepared for the transition to a bed. Despite this challenge, you may find yourselves compelled to make the transition due to safety concerns. Typically, this occurs between 2 and 3 years old, though each child is unique and may be ready at different times. 3 is a good age to start thinking about the transition. Their impulse control and emotional maturity have started to develop more at this age, which is important when you are wanting them to stay in their bed.
Encourage Daytime Physical Activity:
Engage your child in regular physical activity during the day, as this can help expend energy and promote better sleep at night. Outdoor play, active games, and structured activities can all contribute to a healthy sleep-wake cycle.
One of my favourite activities to do with my children as a tired, time poor mum was to get my boys to have running races and see if they could improve their time (all the while knowing they couldn’t read or comprehend the numbers on the stop watch), cheering them on and telling them that they were amazing was a superb way to “run the crazy out of them” and get their little bodies tired enough for a good night sleep.
The WHO (World Health Organisation) states “to grow up healthy, children need to sit less and play more.”
Limit Screen Time Before Bed:
Reduce your child’s exposure to screens, such as television, smartphones, and tablets, before bedtime. The blue light emitted by screens can interfere with the production of melatonin, the hormone responsible for regulating sleep.
In line with the WHO’s recommendations for children to be active, their recommendations associated with screen time are for those aged 2-5 years, should be no more than 1 hour; less is better. When sedentary activity occurs children should be engaging in reading and storytelling with a caregiver.
Respond Consistently to Nighttime Waking:
Setting boundaries around sleep is absolutely critical when it comes to toddler sleep. Examples of boundaries will be sticking to a reasonable number of books at bedtime. No parent would let their child play puzzles for 1 hour rather than getting into bed, but sometimes multiple book reading becomes acceptable; however, it’s often just a stalling tactic. Boundary setting is important also for which parent is doing bedtime, otherwise it can lead to one parent always having to do bedtime. Prepping the toddler ahead of time saying “it’s Daddy’s bedtime tonight” for example and then sticking to it is important. When your child wakes up during the night, respond to their needs in a consistent, kind and reassuring manner. Offer comfort and reassurance without engaging in stimulating activities that may prolong wakefulness. With regards to getting out of bed, being clear with your language like: “I’m here with you, I’m not going anywhere, but this is where you are sleeping now”.
Embracing sleep and understanding the unique sleep needs of 2 to 5-year-olds is essential for fostering healthy development and well-being. By implementing consistent bedtime routines, creating a conducive sleep environment, and promoting healthy sleep habits, parents can support their child’s journey towards restful and rejuvenating sleep. Remember, patience, consistency and kindness are key as you navigate the ups and downs of toddler sleep.
Hi, I’m Faith Hobson—a devoted mother of two boys, Child Health Nurse, Certified Sleep Consultant Informed Trauma Coach, Conscious Parent Coaching, Mindfulness and Meditation teacher.
Through the culmination of my experiences, I’ve given rise to Parenting Revolution Coaching—an innovative and highly effective approach aimed at assisting parents in nurturing happy, healthy, and thriving children from birth to teenagers and all the challenges in between.
